A Ritual For Overwhelm

With nervous system regulation coach, Erica Skone-Rees

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, remember you’re not alone, and this feeling is temporary. Let’s shift out of it together. This ritual is my go-to practice for moving out of survival mode caused by stress, emotion, or dis-ease. By engaging the vagus nerve, this exercise relaxes your mind and body, shifting you from overwhelm to ease.

First, let’s ease your mind.

Pause & Press

  • Pause and press your hands tightly together, then release.

  • Repeat several times allowing your attention to drop down into the sensations of your body, leaving mental chatter behind.

  • Helpful insight: Did you know that emotions cause a 90-second chemical reaction in the body? After that, any lingering emotion is sustained by our thoughts. So, let's shift our thoughts.

Hug & Hold

  • Wrap yourself up in a hug, gently rub your arms, and speak kindly to your overwhelmed self.

  • Example: “It’s okay sweetheart. You are safe. I love you & you’re not alone. I’m here with you.”

  • Reflective note: Remember there are many parts of ourselves present at all times. Your anxious self may feel dominant right now, but your inner wise one and your inner healer are here too. They are the parts that reminded you to try this practice. Feel their presence.

Breathe With It

  • You are doing a great job.

  • Now place a hand on your heart and the other on your belly,

  • Take a few deep breaths, at your own pace. Inhale through the nose, and exhale out through your mouth slowly as if you’re blowing through a straw.

  • Gentle tip: If focusing on your breath doesn’t feel helpful, you can try humming and feel the vibration in your chest and in your hands.

Now, let’s stimulate the vagus nerve to calm your body

The vagus nerve is the longest cranial nerve, linking your brain to your gut, and engaging it helps shift you from stress to relaxation by regulating heart rate, digestion, and mood.

5. Place your fingertip gently near the eardrum. Press backward gently and perform slow circles.

  • Continue for one minute or as long as it feels comfortable.

7. Repeat on the other side.

  • Perform all techniques on the other ear.

  • Look for cues that your nervous system is regulating, such as yawning, sighing, or gurgling.

  • You may feel more ease or relaxation on one side; be patient with yourself.

1. Gently pull your ear away from your head.

  • Hold for the pace of one breath. Inhale through your nose and exhale slowly out your mouth.

  • Reflective note: Notice if you can feel any tension in your ear, or if it moves with ease and feels elastic. Asses this again after the completion of the exercise.

4. Place your fingertip in the hollow under the top ridge of your ear. Press backward and move your finger in slow, small circles.

  • Continue for 20 - 60 seconds, or as long as it feels comfortable.

2. Gently pull your ear up and away from the head.

  • Hold for the pace of one breath. Inhale through your nose and exhale slowly out your mouth.

  • Helpful insight: Pulling the ear activates the vagus nerve by stimulating the nerve endings, which can help trigger a relaxation response.

3. Gently pull down on your earlobe.

  • Hold for the pace of one breath. Inhale through your nose and exhale slowly out your mouth.

  • Comforting tip: This technique can help ease dizziness, headaches, and other symptoms.

6. Place your finger on the skin behind your ear. Gently pull the skin upward, moving it over the tissue.

  • Hold until you feel a release and the skin feels more elastic.

Helpful Insight: Sighing, swallowing, or yawning indicates that your


parasympathetic nervous system is engaging, leading to relaxation.

Erica Skone-Rees


www.mindbodysoundcollective.com

For more mind-body balance tools, contact Erica. As a chronic illness warrior and certified mindfulness teacher, she offers unique insights and compassionate care to guide you to a healthier nervous system and a happier life.

8. Notice the shift and end with self-gratitude.

  • Take a moment to notice how your body and mind feel now.

  • Acknowledge the effort you've made to care for yourself.

  • Express appreciation for your body's ability to find balance.

Scan to follow along with a video guiding this
soothing vagus nerve auricular ear exercise.

To learn more tools for mind-body balance contact Erica Skone-Rees, founder of Woven Path Wellness. As a chronic illness warrior, certified mindfulness teacher, and Safe and Sound Protocol practitioner, Erica offers unique insights, compassionate care, and personalized support. Let her expertise in nervous system health and emotional regulation guide you to a healthier, happier life.

Erica Skone-Rees
www.WovenPathWellness.com
Erica@ourwovenpath.com